Preface

Dear soon-to-be-high-valued-males,

This blog is about becoming a happier and better man by improving your social life. I'll first start of with some informal posts and later on continue with 'the shit'. This post is about your current situation. It's about who you are, what you do, how you interact with women. If you've come to this page, in 99% of all cases, your situation will be as described below. This to-the-point blog will guide you to seize your life and become the man you want to be - in all aspects. Being able to radiate high value will impact your everyday social life, and will change it alltogether.

So, back to your situation. Probably you're single. Probably you're afraid of talking to women, you don't know what to say, you don't get any attention from the girls you want. Yet you feel like you deserve it. You're a good guy, someone who, and you truly believe this, would make the best boyfriend/husband in the world - if you found a good match. You might have - but probably most of you won't - some female friends, but either you're friendzoned or you're not attracted to them. You're more of a boys-guy (after all, bro's are more fun than ho's to hang out with! ;)). If you don't match the above description, read on anyways (but feel free to comment what you're like!). So why are no girls interested in you? You might be insecure about your looks, even if they're ok/good, but that's not it. Probably you're waiting for a girl to start talking to you or magically getting connected or introduced to someone, but it's not gonna happen (the latter might, by small chance). In the former case, if a girl would ever come and talk to you, this might be a sign of dominance (although not in all cases, this is a likely fact). If you want to do your own thing and be the one holding the scepter in your relationship, you should be the dominant one in your relationship! Two dominant characters are likely to collide and you'll end up unhappy and eventually break up. Probably you haven't been in much relationships and you haven't discovered who you really are and what you are really looking for, something which can best be learned in longlasting relationships - ask any father, he would want their kids to have a relationship from 16 to 20-21, then break up and find a better match, knowing what to look for.

So, why is it then, that a good guy like you, can't find a good girlfriend? Why is no one attracted to you? Why doesn't anyone come and talk to you? Why are you being friendzoned? The reason is because you're thinking  of something completely wrong when it comes to attraction. Attraction is not about 'being friendly', 'understanding a girl', 'complimenting her', 'having a nice talk'. Attraction happens WAY BEFORE even talking to the girl, and is not a choice (I'll tell you more about this in the 3 phase post). Attraction happens in the very few first moments when a girl even notices you, when she decides whether or not to keep an eye on you and see if you continue radiating HIGH VALUE. Yes I said continue, because you should radiate high value at all times, especially when entering a place or when you're first seen by a target (thus: just about everywhere). It's in your walk, in your eyes, it's in your body language. It's not in the words you say - yet.

The importance of high value stems from the early days when humankind still lived in small packs. High value means high social value, and depicts your level in society. Humans have an inner urge to procreate. The first implication this has, is who to procreate with? The higher the social value, the better. That is also why people with a lot of money, power, ... attract more women than others. They have a higher value because they know how to make money, protect and take care of their beloved, etc. Your value - whether or not it's legit - determines the amount of girls who are attracted to you, and how attracted they will be. The girls with higher social value - the cute ones - have a high social value and thus you'll need an even higher one. Think about it, it's true. If you don't believe it, look at the world, look outside, and continue reading this blog once you believe it. It's true.

The goal in this blog is to improve your social value and social interaction. It should NOT be your goal to get married to the first girl this guide learns you to get attraction from (as you probably have in the past, and most people like your parents have done in their past). She might be the one, but don't forget to be realistic, there's plenty more fish in the sea, and following this guide will make you able to talk to plenty of women and get the one you really want. My goal in studying PUA, is to find a GOOD girl, who is close to a perfect match to me, with whom I can grow old and have a long and happy life, and kids, and so on.

So say these words out loud and promise them to yourself: I will not use this info to marry the first girl I meet, of whom I don't know whether we fit together, and end up with an unhappy releationship and get divorced. I will however use this info to be able to get the girl of my dreams whenever I meet her!